What do the Souls say about Murder, Murderers, and their Victims?

What do the Souls say about Murder, Murderers, and their Victims?

During a reading that I had many months ago, I was told that my daughters had no memory of their father (who killed them).  Could that be true?

I was told in a paid reading that he was in a very cold very dark place with “God” feeling every ounce of pain he has caused us to have here on earth. He tried to come through and apologize even though he knew I would not believe his apology a sincere one. I asked the man to tell him to go away. And he did….

Please don’t tell me I have to forgive him for what he did to my babies.

Kristina

Dear Kristina,

I have a saying that when we lose a parent, we lose our past. When we lose a spouse, we lose our present. When we lose a child, we lose our future. Losing your children to their father must hurt in a way I can’t even begin to imagine. Even the souls admit that coming to terms with what you went through could take a lifetime to overcome, if you ever do at all.

They also say that when someone’s life is taken, there are very different spiritual aftermaths that this act has for the murderer, the victim, and the families involved. I’m going to do the best I can to address all of those in my answer to your concerns.

I read that someone is murdered, in the United States alone, every eleven seconds. Being the nosy S.O.B. that I am, and having the ability that I do, I’ve asked the souls on the Other Side, “If we’ve choose to come here to learn lessons of love, how does murder come into this? Do people choose to come here to eventually take someone’s life?

And what lessons are we supposed to learn when this happens to us personally?”

What the souls say is that it is true that before we come here we choose the kind of life, and circumstances, that will allow us to learn the lessons we came here to learn.  They also say that when someone veers off course into a life that leads to violence, what’s happened is that something has gone so wrong that they’ve not only lost their way, they can’t even find the road back.

During a reading that I had many months ago, I was told that my daughters had no memory of their father (who killed them).  Could that be true?

When I first started doing this work, I was surprised during sessions in which someone who died at the hands of another have come through, at how nonchalant they felt about what happened. They typically wouldn’t name their killer (if the family didn’t already know who it was) not because they didn’t remember who did it, but they knew it wouldn’t change anything if they did.

What I think might have happened is that the medium you spoke to misunderstood what was going on. It wasn’t so much that your children don’t remember their father or what happened with him, but they just don’t spend their time dwelling on it.

Keep in mind that the Other Side is a reflection of the unconditional love, acceptance, and forgiveness that the Eternal Light of Love, or God, has for each and every single one of us, no matter what we’ve done while we’re here on earth. The souls that are there also reflect this love God has for them to to us, and one another there,  as well.

I was told in a paid reading that he was in a very cold very dark place with “God” feeling every ounce of pain he has caused us to have here on earth.

The souls say, that while someone may get away with breaking man’s law, they do not get away with breaking God’s law. What they mean is that having wreaked the havoc he did, your children’s father would judge himself as not being worthy of being accepted into the Eternal Light of Love immediately after his “life review.”

That is, I believe, what the medium you’ve seen who told you that the father of your children is in a “dark place” in Heaven, meant.

You’re children’s father willl move forward, but only after a great deal of work, understanding, and reparation for what he has done, on his part.

Please don’t tell me I have to forgive him for what he did to my babies.

Okay, I won’t.

I will tell you this though. What we find hard to understand about the souls on the Other Side is their ability to forgive their attacker for what happened to them, and understand why they did what they did. Not only that, but they ask us to do the same, while we’re still here.

Having said that, your daughters understand, as well, that it may never happen for you. But I can tell you this, again, based on the readings I’ve done in the past. They’d want you to pray not only for them, but  for their father along with them.

As one young woman told her family, “I’ve already forgiven him for what he did. You need to do the same.”

What the souls want us to know is that no matter how senseless and how random an act of violence may seem, they are still part of an ever-changing plan to help us learn the lessons that we are here to learn. It all serves a purpose, all of it. Although it’s hard to imagine, you will benefit from all the suffering you’re going through when it’s your time to return home, where you’ll reunite with all those you loved, and the Eternal Light of Love, in an existence of peace.

 

I’d like to finish this by first saying that most of the people who see me to reconnect with someone who was murdered make themselves sick  imagining the pain, fear, and torment, their loved one(s) must have experienced before their passing. I hope it comforts you to hear that I’ve been told, by the souls who transitioned this way, that they didn’t feel any pain whatsoever. They assure their loved ones that seconds before their  physical life ended, their soul left their body so they didn’t feel the effects of the violence.

Finally, I know, and the souls know, that nothing either of us say, no matter how profound, can take away the pain you’re feeling. The ending of  anyone’s life, and the promise they held, at the hands of another, leaves a trail of broken dreams and lost hope for the future. But the souls have said to me, and to their loved ones through me, that they haven’t lost anything at all. That their life does, in fact, go on.

The same is true for your daughters.

I hope this brings you some peace.

Anthony

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